Dating my spouse community marriage builders
Perhaps I should clarify a bit; my husband is not only an Arab, but he’s a bedoin (desert) Arab.
He can comfortably spend his Winter in a desert tent, cooking fresh meat over fahem, and brushing his teeth with a miswak. While I’m watching the Arab Ramadan shows, he’s fully invested in an episode of Daily Show or Colbert.
Dating your mate will help the two of you begin to reconnect, rekindle the romance in your relationship, and pull your marriage out of the rut it's stuck in. And that's why we want to help you get motivated to start dating your mate again, by coaching you on how to get the ball rolling.
First things first - your spouse needs to come to the top of your priority list - just a bubble behind Jesus.
You need to give your spouse priority access to your time - instead of just the leftovers.
In Flagrante Delicto You’ve been caught in a long-term affair, and your spouse has given you an ultimatum: “It’s him/her or me, so make up your mind.” What now? When faced with such an ultimatum, most cheaters have one of three reactions: If you’re wondering which reaction is most common, it’s the one that doesn’t involve immediate clarity.Some of the brightest people I know become idiots when faced with marital conflict. An intelligent man listens to his wife talking about her needs, her desires, her interests -- and it's as if she's speaking a foreign language. Or is there something about marriage that blurs their thinking?A brilliant woman hears her husband describe his perspective, and she doesn't get it. Having spent decades counseling couples who seem communicationally challenged, I am thoroughly convinced that it is marriage itself (or more specifically, romantic relationships) that makes communication difficult, and not differences between men and women.Some even ‘warned’ me before making the decision to get married.This post is my little attempt at clearing up some of the misconceptions regarding the Arab/American marriages.