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Then along came online dating, which suggested a less mystical view of the matchmaking process.
Dating sites offer the lovelorn access to millions of singles just a few clicks away, plus proprietary algorithms to help narrow the field to a shortlist of candidates for the ideal mate.
Clearly, there were even more douche canoes in the dating pool than I had previously suspected.
I decided to learn more, and after venturing into the fun world of PUA forums (where guys get together and trade choice moves), I have some less than awesome news to report. Spotting a pickup artist is a bit like spotting plastic surgery (maybe you know them as Tinder-enabled fuckboys?
You may remember this time, because, well, this book made people go bat-shit insane.
It was a New York Times bestseller, as was an exposé written by Neil Strauss).
Setting people up The governing philosophies of most dating sites are rooted in either setting people up based on the idea that both people are either alike or that their differences complement one another.
EHarmony, for example, was founded by a clinical psychologist who felt most marriages that ended involved people whose personalities were too different.
Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss's New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game.Opening A PUA uses a openers to break the ice and transition into conversation.A naturally attractive Man says what he’s thinking because he’s thinking it.Banter A PUA banters and vibes with her because he’s read that you have to do attraction before you move into rapport.If a naturally attractive Man banters with her, it’s because he’s in a playful mood and wants to play around.